Should We Have to Explain Ourselves?   I’m gonna say yes and no. For me personally, no in many contexts but in others, yes because of 1 Peter 3:15. I saw this meme this morning and was reminded of a few days ago when I was on the first section of the trail that’s paved—the…

  Me Good?   I had pulled off the side of the trail and was straddling my bike looking down at my phone when a speedy mountain biker descending the hill saw me at the bottom and asked, “You good?”   I wanted to say, “I’m trying.”   Instead, I answered, “Yes, I am, thank…

Using Our Arms   “Top of the World” is this planet-shaped, 360-degree hill in Laguna Beach and my target when I hop on my bike at the trailhead down below—it’s my happy place. I pedal my way all the way up 1,516 feet, spend a few moments there and then pedal down whence I came….

I Read the End of the Book   If you read the ending of the book, The Little Love That Could, you know what a bunny tail can mean. Today: It was a foggy early a.m. and I had just arrived at the trailhead and was removing my bike from the rack on the back…

Jungle Love   It’s the wedding season. Love is in the air. A while back, I came across what I think is one of the best pieces of marital advice and I’ve given it to my own children. If you’re getting married this summer, or know of someone getting married and need to write something…

Lego My Ego   Years ago, someone teased me about how many self-help books I had on my shelf. I didn’t understand anyone not wanting to improve and the teasing about that still doesn’t make sense to me. I know I’m not everyone’s cup of kombucha. Which is fine. I’ve “read enough books” to be…

Habitat for Humanity   How’d your day start?  Let me tell you how the tone was set for me. My day began with my legs flinging out the side of the bed escape-style and waking to the sound of my own blood-curdling screams.   In the dream, I’d opened my back door and was startled…

Under the Sun     One of the main reasons I bike is that I love taking in the view. The wildflowers right now are CRAZY. I can’t get enough.   I saw a biker wearing this jersey, and it happened to be a couple of days after someone threw a rock at my head…

      Humble Quinoa   George Orwell said that to see what’s in front of one’s nose requires a constant struggle.   Even though we might, in theory, have the “best” vantage point, we can be completely blind to see what everyone else sees. Rather, we refuse to believe others might know what they’re talking about. In our self-sufficient,…

Squint   Anne Lamott said, “Never compare your insides to everyone else’s outsides.”   Don’t compare what you see in your Facebook newsfeed to what you see in your own house, because what you see in your feed—for the most part—is not reality. It’s not necessarily an intentionally misleading or a flat-out lie, but it’s not the whole…